I want to share this little story with my readers and friends, it definitely proves children learn by example which can make you do a double take on what you may do as an automatic  reaction  that little eyes often witness without us knowing it.

One Saturday evening  we went out to dinner with some friends who brought along their children, Isaiah 6, Abigail 3, and Rieley1 year old.

While waiting for  dinner the children behaved very well until the food came. For some reason Isaiah began to frigged in his chair complaining Abigail was being bossy and bothering him. Abby’s mom, Tonya spoke up to say “Abigail be a good girl and leave Isaiah alone and Isaiah, get use to it Abby isn’t going to change”.

We all humorously mentioned Isaiah would be running into this problems with the more females he befriends as he gets older. Read on →

When I was single, I thought Valentines Day seemed to be one of the holidays that were commercialized on the most. Why is there only one day out of the year selected to proclaim your affection to someone. It should be expressed every opportunity, right? My views have somewhat changed since people are so busy at times I can now understand why taking one day out to be romantic to your partner and drop a card or small gift to other special people in your life. Read on →

Everyone knows when you get a group of women get together without their significant others they turn into creatures or as my beloved calls us frigid bitches. I would have to say we are more on the cynical side, well, the unmarried ones anyways.

Why that?

Well some of my friends who have chosen to remain single have become very comfortable with their decision to remain spouse-free. All career women and some are single parents. The age group is 31 up to 35 years young and happy with their life decisions.These career minded independent women whom have either forfeited the marriage card but opted for motherhood without a full time father around. Read on →

What happens when boy, who is a freelancer, meets girl, who is a freelancer in another field and both have home offices. Physical attraction and similar interests mount but the question remains, this boy and girl make a relationship work along with their career when both work from home?

The answer is: yes, a couple can survive marriage when  they are around each other 24/7 with out killing each other or threatening divorce.You do have moment when there are disagreements but that is normal in any relationship.

There is a normal amount of adjustment when a couple decides to take the plunge and we aren’t just talking marriage here, folk. Just like in any new working atmosphere new techniques and strategies must be learn.  The office sexual harassment wears off eventually, (well calms down after a while besides it’s just us for now.) You have those untamed days of course but one of you snaps back to reality and realize work needs to be completed. After all there is a time for work and a time for play. Read on →

OK, Thanksgiving is over and now the games begin and I am not talking football here. Black Friday is the worst day of the year but to most shoppers it is the best day of the year. Super sales with great saving on things towards Christmas gifts. You got your credit cards  and maybe that Christmas Club handy so let the shopping begin!

Personally I hate to shop but have been dragged out by the girls on occasion for the sales on Black Friday. It isn’t that I don’t love giving it is the shopping carts become bumper cars and then lines being massive and the people rude, just too much for me.

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