I’m back to normal people! Finally I started my period. Thank God!
Well girls, I have to tell you since I have started I have been doing some reflecting about last week experiencing the hormonal voodoo curse. I have come to the conclusion we don’t have to deal with this alone and shouldn’t deal with it alone if we have a significant other. Use Him! You need to be in this together. You are partners in everything else.
My having major PMS last week I found my sure fire medicine for me was my fiance. He could have kept me in bed 24/7 because sex relieved any trace of my PMS symptoms . He is my miracle cure for temporary alleviating my discomfort.
I found it so much easier having the comfort of my fiance. He was there for my every need and I found I needed him in several ways. We all need our man’s support and this isn’t the time to exclude them. It is part of human nature and he needs to understand it, as well as be a part of it. He shouldn’t feel awkward or on the defense at this time and he sure as hell better not be finding excuses to hang out with the guys avoiding your moods swings and whining. They should take advantage and utilize this time to show us just how much they are there for us both emotionally as well as biologically.
Back to mine. His being very compassionate and sympathized with how I felt emotionally and physically. I noticed I was so turned on by this and it was helping my condition and relaxing every PART of me. I couldn’t get enough of him.
It has made me rethink the vulgar remark “she needs to get laid” and took it to a whole new perspective and awakening. Getting laid made me feel better and closer to him especially more connected. You may say he took advantage of it but I got benefits too. His consoling me during this time was proven to be a climax for our relationship.
Benefits On Both Sides…
He has been totally honest about enjoying last week but it wasn’t only a sex marathon for us. He had a thirst for knowledge about what I was going through and what he should expect each month. He was so intuitive when it came to my mood swings. He knew that it was the hormones and not me just being kicky – I was pmsing. Only once was he on the defense and that was before coffee.
The fact is, even going through a hormonal change we can find comfort after love making. It releases all the stress we are feeling. Even the cramping and painful boobs become more relaxed.
I am delighted how he and I have transposed this dreaded time of the month and embellished in to our routine as life partners.
It is as through every fiber of your being has been put in to a temporary retreat without pain and emotional despair. Solution!!! Bang Bang Sisters. Again and again. Why deny it when he is there. Use him!
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