Keeping the romance beating loud and clear is something I feel is very important. In today’s busy world, we often don’t find the time to enforce romance in our relationships other than with words. With modern technology, we can send a sexy text to our significant others. Perhaps a picture or a video just made for their eyes only - something that only they will cherish and make them think of you.

Something that will heat them up for a passionate evening.

I am not a graphic designer, but I love to make collages. This started in grade school - you know, using poster board, a glue gun, and cut outs of the New Kids on The Block. Swishing and doodling on poster board (which ony came in white at the time) with colored markers.

Then, scrap booking came out. Where you just bought everything pre-made for vacations and parties. I never got into that much though. I liked to start from scratch and do it myself.

Thumper showed me some very cool software where I can make collages on the computer. He had to teach me to use them but really it is fun and simple. I can enlarge, crop, and design a collage on the computer now. So I have been taking pictures, grouping or simply enlarging them, and adding some text to personalize a desktop for him.

This is really fun. It also gives me something to do while he is working in the evenings. Something for his desktop. All in good spicy taste.

If you are concerned about others seeing your significant other’s desktop, then keep it sexy and not too revealing. If you are on the doubtful side and feel you can’t do a sexy pic for his desktop, then your views of what is sexy to men are limited. Use your imagination. If he has a foot fetish use your feet! If he is into butts, well ladies. Wouldn’t you want him to be looking at yours!

Recently, I made him a Halloween Desktop. Out of pictures from a party. You can also take a picture of you which reminds him you have a date with a couple of wine glasses and massage oil, for example.

Videos are fun also. Trust me on this one. The things cellphones are capable of is amazing and so helpful when it comes to sending a short sexy video to your significant other. They are small and you can view them whenever.

Something more sentimental is when you cut a lock of your hair off. Then tie a ribbon around it. Last but not least, spray it with your perfume. Thumper and I have each others hair locks on our desks.

This is a great idea as it represents your love and passion for each other. It is very personal and held close to the heart. It takes a lot of courage to cut your hair to begin with! Hopefully his hair is long enough for him to reciprocate. It only needs to be done once to make an impression - and along with the aroma from each others perfumes, it does keep for a very long time.

If your man has to travel, pack one of your sexy nighties in his bag. This, too, you may want to spray his favorite cologne on (that is, your cologne that he likes most, not his own cologne!). Then maybe you have something else you would like to send along to remind him that you are waiting for him at home.

Now if you guys are reading this and the roles are reversed, put in a pair of your boxers for her to sleep with. It works, I’m telling you .

The visual and sensual aroma of your perfume will make sleeping much easier when you are apart.

It can be so simple to touch your significant other. A gesture that comes from the heart wins - always! Which brings us back to our collages. Guys shouldn’t be shy about doing this. I have my Thumper on both of my desktops. It would mean more if he actually had the time to personalize it but I have photos of him. One shirtless and sweating, major turn on! The laptop for work isn’t as sexy. You get my drift guys?

A meaningful moment shared between the two of you. You could even send a picture of a place you both have been wanting to visit, telling her it is time to plan that vacation.

Being creative with love is overwhelming. Do you have any suggestions as to creativly surprise your significant other?